Teenage Love affair

At the end of my last year as a teenager, I was just experiencing my very first teenage love affair. With an inner vow, first girl, first love, would mean marriage. In love and life, things do not always work out the way you want them to even when you work so hard at them. A young man with so much confidence, ready to take on the world, taking care of his academics, socially accepted, and wouldn't shy away from meeting a young lady. Then, an emerald would come along, crafted not as the conventional blinding figure on the love-lust mountain, but prised in inner beauty clouded by smugs of 'i dnt care' and as life would have it, you find ur 'supposed soul mate' and very first teenage love affair. The script would say you are ready, ready to let go of the ladies and go for the lady, let go of ur flirtatious self and have her like you would want her to have you, for as long as you both desire to be together...bla bla bla...I am going to stop there...I would actually write a book on this...Should have a lot to write about.
For now, does anyone remember their 1st teenage love affair? Are you still in the affair? If not, are you still in touch? Can you get back together if a chance provided itself?Do you feel as though you might not find love stronger than that?....
These are a few questions that have been spurred by that once young love that would have an impact on ur being, what future would be holding out for....
Just like I wish I had gone to a mixed sex high school system, or wished to have gone to high school prom, or wished I was a NERD, I wish to have my first teenage love affair again...Yes, I do. Do the things I did right well, learn from mistakes and do right my wrongs because there is no love as strong as your first teenage love affair( except ofcourse Agape, or long married life of peace that has experienced thin and thick). Let me hear about your first teenage affair, its impact on your being and
life.
Here is Alicia's account of her first teenage affair:

Can't wait to get home
Baby dial your number
Can you pick up the phone
'cause I wanna holla?
Daydreaming about you all day
In school can't concentrate
Want have your voice in my ear
'Til ma comes and says it's too late

'cause the lights are on outside
Wish there was somewhere to hide
'cause I just don't want to say goodbye
'cause you are my baby baby
Nothing really matters
I don't really care
What nobody tell me
I'm gonna be here
It's a matter of extreme importance
My first teenage love affair

Another secret meeting
On the 5th floor stair case
I'm gonna give you this letter
Of all the things I can't say
Want you to be my first, my last, my ending and beginning
I wrote your name in my book
You last name my first
I'm your Mrs.

Hey boy
You know I really like being with you right?
Just hanging out with you is fun
So maybe we can go to first base
Because I feel you
Second base
Want you to feel me too
Third base
Better pump the breaks
Well baby slow down
I gotta go home now
My baby baby
Nothing really matters
I don't really care
What nobody tell me
I'm gonna be here
It's a matter of extreme importance
My first teenage love affair

Women deserve to be appreciated

I just sat back the other day and thought to myself,"Women were created to withstand a lot of pain". Before you behead me and put my head on a platter in front of all the women of the world, let me explain my reasoning. With my christian beliefs, women were created by God to act as man's companion. The woman though were punished and cursed to go through pain in childbearing and all that...Fast track. Also women endure pain even during sex[actually especially when losing their virginity]and men just lay back and enjoy. The tears they roll when a relationship is going sore is not one to forget...the sleepless nights they endure days when we guys are behaving like ass-holes et al.Now women will see what I mean now.Don't you?
This made me realise that as men or boys, we should do a lot more to show these women or girls that they are much more appreciated and loved. We want to give them less to cry about, less to have sleepless nights over, and more nights to remember. The patience they exercise with our many demeanors must be emulated and appreciated. Both single men and engaged ones should adore women the way they should, though I have to say the women that have given up on men must decide to forgive us and live life more freely. Enjoy life, express yourself, and be strong. I personally,love you all. I mean ladies who hate me, those who could care less, those I have had dealings with, will have dealings with, I am dealing with, friends with, whatever be the relationship as far as you deemed a lady.The pain every women is/has gone through is not going unnoticed, I promise you from today and you will forever be the cornerstone of any good thing. Ladies, be careful too, to ensure you demonstrate love, patience, understanding in the most trying of times, as every man deems his woman has his home, in that just like home, you will always come back because there is no place like that.Likewise, you will always come back to your woman, whatever it is that comes over you to make you misbehave...